Monday, September 8, 2008

Her First Touch.......



Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore dont appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you are a confident guy who is not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, let us take a look.

1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But that is simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. The outside of a woman is arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it is a clear-cut sign that you are a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Do not be afraid to give it a try, you will notice the benefits immediately.

2. Once you have started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it is important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport you have already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called ” Stealth Tactility” ™ to do this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but does not know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.

3. Lastly, always try to use a ” contact close ” ™ when you finish your conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping numbers or arranging to meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think that the hard work have been done once something has been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again

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