LOVE....Not The Greatest Thing on Earth

“ It is better to have loved and lost. Than never loved at all.” Is a famous quote once said by Alfred Tennyson .Of course people’s opinions of this quote vary. Some speculate whether the person who stated this was ever in love at all. Others just don’t believe or understand the whole concept of love. There’s also those who believe love is a beautiful, intense emotion. I believe love is for those who believe in it and personally I don’t.Love is myth, legend, lie, an over-told story to fuel dreams. Girls grow up and go to sleep every night to dream of a prince charming who will one day ride up to them on an ivory horse and sweep them off of their feet to take them away from their everyday chaotic existence. They dream of a cozy cottage placed on the side of a hill, surrounded by fields blooming wild flowers whose names cannot be pronounced. Personal experiences have made me believe that love is nothing more or less than lies, power, and getting hurt.
Power plays into lust. In relationships now, people are always trying to get the upper hand. Society shows us that dominance plays a big role in the success of a relationship. In movies both men and women set up rules and play games to punish or over take the power in the relationship. Egos and envy also tie into dominance. Men find it insulting if a woman they r dating makes more money or is in the spotlight while women find it illuminating. Music with its diversity degrades both men and women. The constant comments on which women are delighted ,men get agitated.A man is always possessive about his girl but a girl likes to flaunt his man.....A very bad mistake..
But like they say,"Everythings fair in love and war".So all you people i suggest u love is a war,fight it like a true warrior......if u cant i will say only one thing......-"There are thousands of fishes in the sea....keep looking.U will find someone who is just made for u"

Girls.......God's Greatest Creation!

This is my tribute to the nice girls. To the nice girls who are overlooked, who become friends and nothing more, who spend hours fixating upon their looks and their personalities and their actions because it must be they that are doing something wrong. This is for the girls who don't give it up on the first date, who don't want to play mind games, who provide a comforting hug and a supportive audience for a story they've heard a thousand times. This is for the girls who understand that they aren't perfect and that the guys they're interested in aren't either, for the girls who flirt and laugh and worry and obsess over the slightest glance, whisper, touch, because somehow they are able to keep alive that hope that maybe... maybe this time he'll have understood. This is an homage to the girls who laugh loud and often, who are comfortable in skirts and sweats and combat boots, who care more than they should for guys who don't deserve their attention. This is for those girls who have been in the trenches, who have watched other girls time and time again fake up and make up and **** up the guys in their lives without saying a word. This is for the girls who have been there from the beginning and have heard the trite words of advice, from "there are plenty of fish in the sea," to "time heals all wounds." This is to honor those girls who know that guys are just as scared as they show....